The phrase “And with these lips she will kiss my children later!” Has long passed into the category of jokes and therefore, no serious argument is put forward. Even from those who really disapprove of oral sex.
However, polls conducted by Passion.ru scouts on social networks showed that many men and women still do not take oral sex seriously and even do not consider sex.
But, what’s the most annoying, if our compatriots ask a question about oral sex, then 98% will talk about fellatio, that is, about a situation where the female mouth and male genitalia are involved. The remaining couple of percent will recall that, in fact, there is also cunnilingus. And it will never occur to anyone that truly oral sex (that is, oral sex that brings both partners to orgasm) is possible only in the “69” position – this story is not even discussed. So in fact, the article should be called “What Men and Women Think About Blowjob.”
Should I consider him sex?
You will be surprised, but most of the men argue, like Clinton in the era of the scandal with Monica Lewinsky: if there was no contact of the genitals, then there was no sex.
Andrey, 39 years old
“Blowjob is not sex. This is either a prelude or an artificial conclusion, if a woman managed to finish during normal sex, but a man doesn’t, then she can bring her partner to the finals in such a simple way. ”
Yuri, 36 years old
“Fellazio, sorry, is a method of contraception. It is definitely impossible to get pregnant through the mouth. Therefore, you must first naturally bring the woman to orgasm, and then she (in gratitude) will bring you – in a completely safe way. “
Women still tend to consider oral sex as sex. Although their arguments are sometimes purely philological:
Anna, 29 years old
“It’s called“ oral sex, ”which means sex. What could be the difference? ”
Olga, 32 years old
“If a man penetrated a woman, it is not so important which side. This is already sex . ”
Do women enjoy it?
Obviously, oral orgasm does not exist. However, for some reason, women practice blowjob? What is their joy from him?
Snezhana, 32
“I think it’s a pleasure in the format of“ see how I can. ” Such narcissism, the desire to impress a man. “
Vitaliy, 35
“I think oral sex is always a kind of concession, or even a bribe from a woman. Pure altruism: she does not receive pleasure, but delivers it. “
Andrey, 39
“A woman enjoys a feeling of power. Actually, this is the only form of sex where it dominates. “
Here the expensive edition was a little surprised. It seemed to us that the opposite version is more popular: blowjob is the apotheosis of female humiliation and male power. But, as you will soon realize, almost no one thinks so. The opinion that oral sex is a form of humiliation is somewhat outdated. Although, of course, it occurs …
Diana, 39
“For a woman, it is always a sacrifice. She does this not for herself, but for the man. ”
Olga, 32
“I strongly disagree about the victim!” If sex is love, then the feminine pleasure of oral sex is such an animal delight that it is inside of you. What is called “would have eaten.” We do not seem kisses a victim? Fellazio is the same, only more. ”
What bonuses does a man receive?
This question was the most difficult. It is clear that a man will receive his orgasm in any case – even from genital sex, even from oral, even from anal. But are there any specific reasons that make them want and beg their girlfriends for oral techniques? Most men, as it turned out, love oral sex, but they themselves do not understand why. Even women have more versions on this score.
Olesya, 33
“It seems to me that for men this is one of the most socially approved ways of domination. He enjoys not only at the physiological level, but also morally – from the fact that he humiliated a woman . “
Irina, 29
“Oral sex is a symbol of full acceptance. And if a woman swallows sperm, a man can be sure that this is love. ”
Alexandra, 35
“With oral sex, a man is allowed not to use a condom. I don’t see other bonuses . ”
Marianna, 30
“With tongue and lips you can perform more than any tricks than in a natural way. When I do a blowjob, my husband says that I am fluent in several languages . “
The latest version is considered working by many men:
Oleg, 40
“I heard that Thai prostitutes can create a vaginal vacuum effect … But all the other women are capable of such a trick only with oral contact.”
Stanislav, 38
“The sensations of oral and regular sex vary greatly. Ordinary sex is a daily meal to relieve stress. Oral is gourmet delicacy. ”
Vitaliy, 35 years old
“Oral sex is a way to slope. The transition of men to passive. When there is an erection, but you don’t want to move, then you can ask the girl about a blowjob . ”
By the way, laziness and fatigue more often than others act as a weighty argument, and on both sides:
Ira, 38
“When we want intimacy, but we don’t have the strength for anything, oral sex helps out.”