Oral sex is included in the life of many couples, but at the same time it is not always pleasant for the performer. What if the girl does not like to do blowjob? How can she deal with her own negativity and learn how to have fun? Simple tips for both to help make a difference.

Reasons for unwillingness to do blowjob

Why do not you like blowjob? You need to find the answer to this question in order to remove the reasons. There may be many or one unique, each woman has their own. The most common are:

• Hygiene problems. The smell or overgrowth really interferes with enjoying the process. The hairs are constantly distracting, and the unwashed body does not allow breathing. And it can be difficult to say about this man, and not everyone is ready to do an intimate haircut. 
• Bad taste. Both the body and the secretions have it. Even if you do not swallow the semen, a small amount of grease is still released, and its texture and smell can cause disgust. 
• Vomiting reflex. For someone, it only works when something gets into the throat, but someone chokes when it opens its mouth wide. And cramping does not allow you to enjoy. 
• Negative attitudes. If in childhood, mother or other adults said that it was “dirty,” then overcoming this opinion can be difficult. You need to understand what opinions interfere, and on what basis they are based. The subjective assessment of others should not govern the life of an adult. 
• Embarrassment. A woman can worry about her own inexperience, feel uncomfortable when trying oral sex for the first time. 

Knowing the cause, it can be removed. Therefore, you need to figure it out in order to find a way out.

Real look at blowjob

How does a woman learn to do blowjob? Most often peeps in porn. And there is a picture that does not coincide with reality. A woman gives a blowjob and groans with delight – this is a rare image that is imposed.

If during the blowjob there is no other contact, for example, he does not stimulate her with his hands, does not hug, does not give compliments, then her arousal is often reduced . Very rare women are able to experience an orgasm from stimulation of the inner wall of the mouth or tongue. The only pleasure at this moment is the feeling of power over a man. This is a thrill from his pleasure. And this is a more real moment than the excitement of stimulation. Therefore, you need to learn emotional pleasure, and not the development of mouth sensuality. 

Right attention

To begin to perceive the process in a different way, you need to shift attention from your own feelings to its reaction. You need to carefully monitor, but how does he feel this or that movement? What he likes best and what doesn’t. Which rhythm is better to use at the beginning, and which at the end?

The secret of pleasure lies in changing attention. Do not focus on the thought that it is disgusting or boring, do not think about it. Learn its pleasure. And add yours. Why not stimulate yourself in the process? Hands can caress the chest, clitoris. Not all poses are convenient for this, but why not prompt such movements to a man? 

Remove the discomfort

Many causes of inconvenience are associated with physical factors that are easy to remove. For example, do not settle for a blowjob if he did not go to the shower. Or offer him help with a haircut in the bikini zone.

Do not try to swallow the whole member. These techniques are mastered for a long time and with the help of a dildo, not a living man. The main thing is to caress the head, this is enough for him to experience an orgasm. Add grease. A lubricant in oral sex is very important. Saliva may not be enough, and a special composition will help movements. Without a lubricant, it’s impossible to realize many blowjob techniques, that’s what they talk about in oral care courses. Change the taste and smell. It is not necessary to make him eat pineapples every day, just buy an oral lubricant . It is always with a chic taste and aroma. With him, the problem of taste will cease to exist completely. And this grease can be swallowed, it is safe. It tastes sweet, but without sugar.

Tips for men to love blowjob

A woman needs additional stimulation when she does a blowjob. She needs to be hugged, stroked, kissed in the process. Only then will she be excited even more. But if there is no energy for such movements, buy her a vibrator . Let her squeeze between her legs a sex toy that stimulates the clitoris. This will definitely increase her pleasure.