The world of sex is full of variety and the most piquant techniques that give us an enchanting experience. Today we will talk about one of these sex techniques – about erotic asphyxiation. What is it, how to apply it and how to observe all safety measures?
 

Why do people like erotic asphyxiation in “choking games”?

Erotic asphyxiation is a sexual game in which suffocation is used. Choking games are often found in BDSM culture. Until recently, many moralists considered such entertainment to be shameful perversions. Even voluntary, even delicate, even perfectly controlled games were condemned. However, modern society has reconsidered its views on sex. Now it is not customary to call an action a perversion if adults and mentally healthy people participate in them of their own free will. And interest in controlled suffocation is by no means a psychological deviation, believe me.  

From a psychological point of view, interest is caused by passion, the desire to feel dominance, or languor from submission. Although the psychological factor of pleasure is present in the context of pleasure, it is also a matter of physiology. So what is the physiological reason for the desire to cut off oneself (or another person’s) access to oxygen during sexual experiments? Difficulty breathing scares our brains on a subconscious level, even if we realize that there is no real danger. Conduct an experiment and measure your heart rate at rest. Then cover your mouth and nose with your own hand for a while. Feel your heart pounding? Pupils dilating … Take your pulse again. Heartbeat quickened, right? But there was not even a mortal danger. When our body is in a stressful situation, the brain begins to produce hormones such as adrenaline. In addition, oxygen starvation occurs, carbon dioxide accumulates, from which comes something like a weak feeling of intoxication. Moreover, any deprivation leads to heightened feelings. Each time your partner touches your body, it feels brighter.
 

Safe erotic choking rules

However, some rules should be followed so that choking games do not cause problems. 1) Do not play with asphyxiation in case of serious health problems. 2) Never, never, never let your oxygen cut off if you don’t want to. If a man continues to insist, find another man, because without respect for the health of partners, there can be no normal relationship and healthy sex. 3) In no case do not block the air for your partner, unless you have discussed games with suffocation with him in advance and have not received his consent. 4) Do not use choke options that you cannot 100% control. Do not tie a stranglehold to doors. Do not put cellophane or plastic wrap on your head. Don’t trust a new partner in whom you are unsure of control. 5) Carefully monitor your partner’s health (if you are choking), ask him to watch you (if he is choking). Since in this case it can be difficult to pronounce stop words, it is important to know each other’s bodies and periodically ask about their well-being. If your partner doesn’t respond, immediately restore air flow. 6) Do not block the oxygen supply for a long time. Pre-experiment by finding out how long you or your partner can hold their breath without losing consciousness. 7) Do not settle for body asphyxiation when a partner presses his genitals to his face or sits on his mouth and nose. Often this happens (even unintentionally) in sex position “69”, when one of the lovers is so excited that he loses control over his body and blocks the lower air. 8) Learn the anatomy of the airways! Don’t poke your head into the water without knowing the ford. An unpleasant fact: non-observance of the rules of sexual asphyxia can be fatal. And the reason for this, as a rule, is human stupidity and unwillingness to open an anatomy textbook. It will not be superfluous to learn the techniques of artificial respiration.  
















 
 

Delicate uses of suffocation
during petting and sex 

Did the previous rules scare you and discourage you from experimenting? Don’t be afraid, just be careful. We bring you delicate asphyxiation games that will enrich your intimate experience. Consider several options for safe choking games? Rest assured, they will help you make sex more spicy. 
 

1. Spontaneous breath holding

There is nothing easier and more reliable than just holding your breath from time to time, without cutting off your oxygen in any way. And effective, and pleasant, and safe.

2. Asphyxia with a pillow

You can ask your partner to gently cover your face with a pillow. But this can be done only if you are absolutely sure that the person knows how to control himself and at the moment of orgasm will not fall on the pillow with his whole body.

Personally, I recommend a safer option, when the girl either covers her face with a pillow while lying on her back, or buries her face in the pillow in positions such as ” Doggy- style” or “Iron”.

3. Asphyxia with a palm on the lips and nose

The easiest way is to cover your nose and mouth with your hand. Both partners can do this. Do not press your hand too hard. If the partner’s body is very tense and bent, then you should immediately remove your hand.

4. Asphyxia with a stranglehold

You can use a tie, belt, belt, scarf, or any other item that depicts a leash and collar. Be delicate, you only need to strangle a little: passionately, gently, but without bruises or other injuries. Squeezed, released, squeezed, released.

5. Asphyxia with hands on the neck

Surely you have done this yourself at least once in a fit of passion – unconsciously put your palm on your partner’s neck and squeezed. The sensation is pleasant both thanks to a slight suffocation, and thanks to the realization that a person is ready to strangle you out of passion. In a good way.
You can squeeze each other’s necks this way at the same time in face to face positions. Also, a man can squeeze his girlfriend’s neck with his shoulder and forearm. It is convenient to do this in the ” Doggy- style” pose or in the “Spoon” positions.