Girls, who cares about these guys ?! They take so much time, patience and energy. Isn’t it easier to make an applied cognitive trip to the nearest sex shop and get a small (or not so) vibrating friend? I will not argue, there is no soul in the toy, it will not give flowers and sing serenades. However, to be honest, when was the last time we received a bouquet from our beloved – on Valentine’s Day or March 8th. Boyfriends do not indulge us with attention every day …

Using a vibrator has many advantages over “live sex”. Now I mean, what we all strive for is a mind-blowing orgasm. During standard intercourse, a lot of effort is required to reach the peak point. Those who argue that they end up with a partner every time are exaggerating, to say the least. The ability to approach the desired release is influenced by many factors. Either there was not enough foreplay, or the guy got overexcited and shot earlier, or there was no mood initially – the result was equally no. With a typewriter, everything is much easier, we ourselves control all the stages on the path to satisfaction.

Novice users of vibrators are often disappointed with the first acquaintance with the device. Many people mistakenly believe that it is enough to turn on, insert, and a tsunami of bliss will immediately sweep through the body. It’s not that simple, comrades! Self-satisfaction with a vibrator is similar to a theatrical performance – the success of a premiere depends on the director’s talent. I invite you to take a look behind the scenes of deafening vibration masturbation and learn how to get satisfaction .
 

First call – preparation of equipment

If you are completely new to the sex toy industry, I highly recommend refraining from buying fisting vibrators . It is unlikely that your vagina can cope with a 15-centimeter head diameter. Choose a device with more modest dimensions. The optimal dimensions correspond to the parameters of the average male member (from 13 to 20 cm in length and from 3 to 7 cm in width). So, let’s agree that the trip to the 18+ store ended with a successful purchase.

As an illustrative example, we will use a device that simulates the shaft of the penis with smooth speed control, powered by two AA batteries. To ensure naturalism, the manufacturers covered the surface with “swollen wreaths”. The material is silicone, a little unusual, but it is securely fixed in the palm of your hand and does not slip out. Nothing extra – 18.5 cm long, 4 cm in diameter at the widest part.

In a relaxed atmosphere, unpack the new thing and be sure to change the batteries. The fact is that in stores they save on components. The distributors supply poor quality consumables, and this negatively affects the power of the equipment. Hold the device in your hand, evaluate the weight, degree of flexibility, twist the speed selector knob. After all, you’re not jumping into a bunk with a stranger.

Wash the vibrator with warm water and liquid soap. Some people advise using a gel for intimate hygiene or special detergents from a sex shop. I declare – it makes no difference what you wash, even with dishwashing detergent. It is important to perform hygiene procedures. If you are a little worried about sterility, put a regular latex condom on the device. Please note that the water jet must not be directed at the “control panel”. Otherwise, the technique will be short-circuited. Blot off excess moisture with a paper towel (cloth towels leave lint). That’s all the vibrator is ready for battle.
 

Second bell – setting preparation

You deserve the best, you should not deny yourself a romantic evening alone with your “beloved”. I suggest shading the curtains, lighting candles and playing soft, flowing music. Place fresh linens on your bed. Eliminate extraneous noises – lock the cat in another room, threaten the neighbors that if they make noise, you will call the police. Make the atmosphere appropriate for the occasion. A couple of glasses of wine will help you tune in to the right mood. In the design of the background, act according to your own preferences, here I am not ordering you.

It is very important to observe the thermal regime. In a room that is too stuffy, you have an 80% chance of getting a headache, and in a room that is too cold, you will not have an orgasm. A temperature of 20 to 25 degrees is what you need for successful masturbation. To appreciate all the possibilities of a vibrator for the first time, do not hide under a blanket. Leave your body completely open to air currents and the touch of the toy.
 

Third bell – preparation of the actor

Take a hot bath or contrast shower to make your skin more receptive to stimulation. Use a moisturizing body lotion. Massaging rubbing movements will provide blood flow and increase the positive response of the body. In our example, we use a silicone aggregate, which has increased friction and, as a result, poor sliding, therefore, it is necessary to ensure the ideal smoothness of the covers. Prepare to meet a vibrator like a date with a man.
 

Act 1 – Prelude

Finally we got to the fun part. Turn on the unit to the minimum, but noticeable speed limit. Close your eyes, run the tip over your lips, as if you were kissing your partner. Then smoothly walk along the chin, along the neck line, press the vibrator at a point under the earlobe. The device will stimulate one of the most significant erogenous zones, which for some reason men neglect.

Stroke the collarbones with pendulum movements, descend from the armpit along the inner side of the shoulder to the bend of the elbow. You will feel a little ticklish, but very nice. Follow the above steps exactly the opposite and return to the base of the neck. It’s the turn of the breast: stroke the mounds, rub the pink areolas with your head, do not disregard the nipples. By the way, do not forget that you have two hands – let one use a toy for stimulation, while the other simultaneously caresses the body.

Sink lower, place a small emphasis on the navel and pubis, lightly touch the clitoris. No! It’s too early, you haven’t warmed up enough! Play with your nipples with your left hand, and drive along the inner thigh with your right. The slower the movements, the more sensual the pleasure. Take the time for yourself, you have nowhere to rush.
 

Intermission – Fantasies

I would like to distract myself and talk about the ephemeral. Answer the question – what do you think about during sex with a man? I guess – either about any nonsense, or about how to have time to finish. This approach is unacceptable when playing with a vibrator. Cleanse your pretty head from all unnecessary things. If it doesn’t work out, use your imagination. The main plus of self-satisfaction is an excellent opportunity to dream up without a twinge of conscience. Agree, lying under your partner is a little impolite to soar in illusory clouds with an absent gaze.

Have you wanted to participate in a gangbang for a long time? Secretly hoping to try interracial sex? Have you looked at your best friend’s boyfriend or an unattainable celebrity? Don’t hold back – dream! Imagine yourself in the arms of an insistent admirer, or imagine yourself lying tied up on blood-red satin sheets and blindfolded. The possibilities of your mind have no moral and ethical boundaries.
 

Act 2 – Vibromasturbation

You can start the main action only if there is sufficient moisture. Are you excited, languishing with desire, but is it dry between the labia, like in the desert or instead of a turbulent river a thin stream flows? A water-based lubricant will come to the rescue. Oily or synthetic lubricants are bad for the vaginal microflora, so forget about their existence. Apply a few drops to the clitoris and lubricate the vibrator liberally.

Gently insert the device into the vagina, hold it for a few minutes, get used to the new sensations. Adjust the speed and pressure on the front wall as needed (as we know, this is where the G-point is located). Perform a few back and forth movements, help yourself with your hips. Push yourself towards the machine, to be sure, grasp the base of the vibrator with both hands.

The secret to quality self-satisfaction is working with the clitoris. There are several options. In the first, squeeze the aggregate with the muscles of the vagina, hold it with one hand, and pull the pea with the other. The second option consists in alternating deep penetrations into the “banal” hole with sliding friction along the clitoris (this is where the rough and uneven surface of the vibrator comes in handy). In the third case, focus all your attention on the pearl. Either press the device directly to the clitoris, or position the device along the labia so that the most active vibrating zone of the equipment falls on the same place.

It is not difficult to notice the approaching orgasm – the thighs become heavier, the whole world converges to a point between the legs. Never stop stimulating, otherwise your efforts will go to waste. Take every last drop from the vibrator. A few more moments and then He comes – the long-awaited moment of climax. A sweet spasm runs through the body, the back arches, the toes are squeezed, the knees tremble …
 

A curtain

After yelling to your heart’s content, be sure to wash the equipment and hide it away from prying eyes. Guests should not be aware of the secret little lover. Play and you will certainly win!