For every man, the penis is a real pride and dignity in the truest sense of the word. And Freud argued that all women have a complex of desire to also have a penis, from which, in his opinion, the fair sex is not as happy as they could.
You can relate to this theory in different ways, but as they say – you can’t throw words out of a song. And if such a device as a strap-on has appeared , and many girls use it with pleasure, then there is some truth in this and this phenomenon should be given worthy attention. Moreover, if you already had the thought to buy such a thing. We will tell you what and how, and maybe even throw some ideas on how and to whom you can have fun with her
To whom, why, and why?
A strap-on (like any intimate device) can be used in an extremely diverse and interesting way. Moreover, for someone, such an experience may be one of the most wonderful. Here, as elsewhere, everything depends on everyone’s imagination, but we will allow ourselves to hint about how and in what cases it can be used, while getting great pleasure.
1. Woman / woman
Everything here is clear and predicted. Naturally, girls who are in a lesbian relationship or have a bi-orientation cannot satisfy each other only with their tongues or hands. Yes, you can use a vibrator, but you can make everything much more interesting.
Any of you can turn into a hot macho in an instant, but with a beautiful female body. With this addition, your sex games will become much more interesting and realistic, and the temptation to invite a man to bed purely for practical reasons will disappear. The strapon is a great device for introducing sex role-playing games.
2. Woman / man
A spicy and very interesting moment and balance of power. Sometimes intimate life becomes boring, insipid, and not as groovy as before. And more than one couple went through this, especially the one that is in a long-term relationship.
And if you consider that men have an anus no less erogenous than women, and in addition there is a prostate, which in its sensitivity is compared to the clitoris, then why not? Moreover, everyone will be able to feel in the place of another, which is already interesting, and in addition to experience completely new sensations from sex.
Immediately I want to firmly and confidently say – this will in no way speak of a man’s gay orientation, it manifests itself in something else. Therefore, do not deny yourself the pleasure!
3. Male / male
“Well, what’s that got to do with it?” – you say. What for? For what? Believe it or not, some inventive comrades with an irrepressible craving for experiments attach a strap on a leg, body, or even head. Why not?
Secondly, homosexual men also experience impotence, and a partner (especially with whom they have been in a relationship for a long time) cannot be left without “sweet”. So such a sex toy will come in handy. And speaking of size, this is a great excuse to try something new and experiment.
As you probably understood, this is just the tip of the iceberg, and there are many options for how you will use this device in your immodest fun. Just get creative.
What kind of strapon can be bought in a sex shop
Let’s imagine that we have intrigued you, and you are already browsing the sites where you can buy such a toy. Excellent! Then the next thing we will do with you is to find out what they can be, their fundamental differences and advantages.
Immediately, we note that, in essence, a strap-on is a dildo and the main difference here is in the attachment system, or in how you can hang a dildo on your body.
1. Panties with a ring
Timeless classics. This is because it is very practical and convenient. You put on leather panties or a harness made of ribbons in which there is a ring where you need to insert the attachment. This should have a special shape, or rather a “skirt” at the base so as not to fall out. Such an accessory is put on as quickly as possible and can be easily adjusted using buckles to fit. Accordingly, each of the partners can use it, regardless of body size.
2. System Vac -U- Lock
The same as in the first case, but slightly different. The panties remain the same, but the ring changes to a metal bar with notches on which the dildo is inserted. It must have a corresponding hole. Check with your dealer for these details when purchasing an attachment.
The mount is standardized, and you can’t make a mistake with the size of the mount. This option is very popular in America, but it is becoming more and more famous today in our country.
3. Beltless models
You can truly admire them and enjoy the fact that this exists. Such strap-ons are relatively “young” and are attached wherever you think? In the vagina! Just imagine how organic, beautiful, and natural it looks. It seems that this is a real penis, because there are no straps, no panties or other details on the thighs.
Some people in vain believe that such a fastening is not entirely reliable, and the toy can fall out during sexual play. But this is not at all the case. The device has a special anatomical shape and therefore is securely located inside the body of an active girl. As another pleasant bonus, both get pleasure, and the active partner will also enjoy the unsurpassed stimulation of such an erogenous area as the G-spot. It is quite rare to find strapons with a fixed dildo today . They are not very popular for obvious reasons, because the baits are relatively inexpensive, and it is always pleasant to enjoy the variety. Also in any sex shop you can find such devices with one more dildo for an active lady, or a double one for vaginal-anal penetration.
Features of using the toy
Sex is good, and safe sex is even better. And the strap-on (like any other intimate device) has its own characteristics and nuances in use. What kind? You are welcome.
1. Caution
First and foremost. Do not forget that unlike a real penis, a dildo attached to you has no sensitivity. Therefore, at first, until you have mastered it well enough, be careful and take care of the passive partner. After all, you can insert the dildo too sharply, deeply, not quite carefully, etc. Thus, not only causing pain, but possibly even injuring a loved one. Also, the use of strap-ons is not advisable for those who have hemorrhoids and a tendency to thrombosis. A dildo can cause inflammation in the hemorrhoids, which increases the risk of thrombosis. After all, the purpose of intimacy is pleasure and orgasm, not trauma.
2. Lubricants
It’s the same story as with vibrators or dildos. If you don’t grease, you won’t go, and if you did, then there can be no question of a sex marathon. Therefore, always use the type of lubricant that suits your attachment or depending on what kind of sex (meaning anal) you are going to have.
3. Hygiene
Everything is clear here, but it will never be superfluous to remind about it. Moreover, for this you just need to wash the phallus well after each use, and simply wipe the panties with a damp cloth as needed.
4. Condoms
A strap-on is a personal, intimate item. Therefore, if you have a new, untested partner, then use a condom. This will serve as a guarantee of excellent health and the fact that your meetings will bring exceptionally joy and pleasure to all participants in bed scenes. Also, the device cannot be given to other people for use, even if they are your friends or relatives.
5. Storage
The device is extremely unpretentious in this regard. The only thing is, consider what material the attachments are made of. For example, silicone products should not be stored in contact with other silicone products, and those made from cyber leather should be protected from dust and direct sunlight.
We wish each of you a lot of pleasant and new realizations from sex, as well as the fact that you are not afraid to experiment, try, and, of course, be inspired by ideas to purchase a new sex device!