Blowjob is a real sex art, the skill of women in which is highly valued by many men. There are many oral sex techniques, among which one of the most popular (and most desirable for a guy) is the technique with a not so elegant name – deep throat. How to please a guy with it? Let’s tell you now!

To begin with, we will conduct a small educational program for those who (is this possible ?!) do not know about such a blowjob. Deep throat is a technique of oral sex, in the process of which a man deeply penetrates his penis into the mouth of the receiving partner or partner, passing the head behind the mouth into the larynx. Since I am not a man, I cannot describe the extravaganza of feelings that a “ swallow ” blowjob gives guys. But, according to them, it is impossible to forget such an affection for several reasons:

– the head and shaft of the penis experience a unique sensation with a tight entry, not similar to other stimulations;

– when swallowing saliva, there may be a pleasant pressure on the penis;

– the process gives moral pleasure (both from the realization that the partner lusts for the penis so much that she is ready to completely swallow it, and from the very type of the process).

The main rules of deep blowjob

1. Breathing through the nose

Rarely does anyone think about how to breathe during a blowjob until they start the process itself. Watch your breathing, take measured breaths in and out through your nostrils. Breathing through the mouth while deep throating can cause pain or even vomiting. We breathe through our nose: inhale, exhale … 

2. Exercise ahead of time

Do not try to give an hour deep blowjob on the first try. The throat needs to get used to the new sensation. The best simulator will be the penis of a loved one, but if it is difficult for a guy to patiently freeze and not move, then you can replace it with an ordinary faloimitator . In frivolous films, you can often see the popular cliché when a girl hones her skill on a banana. Remember, movies are not reality. Do not stuff a banana down your throat, as it will most likely break and you will simply choke.
Start your workouts with slow and short attempts. Lubricate a guy’s penis or dildo with lubricant . Take a couple of breaths, relax your throat, place the “trainer” on your tongue and slowly put your head on it. Freeze, breathe slowly through your nose. In case of vomiting or pain, immediately remove the “simulator”. Catch your breath, relax and try again. With a couple of workouts a week, over time, you will muffle the gag reflex, the throat will get used to the large size and the pain will go away.
 

3. Limit the movement of a man at first

It is only in porn that a trained actress can easily cope with a penis when a partner actively drives it in with her valiant prowess. In reality, such freaks are difficult to cope with. Talk to your partner and ask him not to be active, at least at first, until you master the throat . If it is necessary (and if the man agrees) – tie him hand and foot or bed him. I am not kidding. Quite often, pain arises from the fact that a man loses control over himself. 

4. Keep the chin and neck in a straight line

When you are in a normal sitting or lying position, the area of ​​the oral cavity passes into the throat with the letter “G”, and in this position it is not easy to insert a member deeply. Therefore, you should take those positions in which the mouth and throat form a straight line. We figured out the main rules. Let’s take a closer look at the features of deep blowjob. 

 

Difficulties with deep blowjob and how to overcome them

After watching films for adults, where pornographic actresses with unprecedented ease swallow male “dignity” for the most not smiling, many guys naively believe that their ladies of the heart will also easily cope with the task. However, such caresses have their own unpleasant nuances.
 

1. Vomiting urge

The most common problem is the relentless urge to vomit, after a minute or two of which you will have a brutal headache and tears will pour out of your eyes. There is nothing more shameful than to spew the contents of the stomach on the body of a beloved man. Mother Nature somehow did not expect that we would swallow something 10 to 30 centimeters long, and therefore the body quite naturally reacts to a deep blowjob with a gag reflex.
But this trouble will not stop us – curious experimenters, right? To prevent nausea, there are several factors that can trigger it. 
 

1) Penis aversion

No matter what men think to themselves, but not all ladies seem to have penises “appetizing.” Often the guys themselves become the culprits of disgust, neglecting the basic concepts of hygiene in sex. Do not hesitate to ask your man to thoroughly wash his entire body (not only the penis, but also the ass, as well as legs and other “spare parts”). The smell and taste of unwashed body is the main cause of nausea.
In addition to purely physical aspects (unpleasant taste or smell), rejection can cause psychological disgust at the very idea of ​​taking a man’s penis in your mouth. But there is only one solution: either fall in love with the dick of your beloved man, or do not give a blowjob. Generally. You don’t have to, after all, rape yourself morally. You can discuss the problem with a sexologist if you feel ready to understand the vagaries of your subconscious.
 

2) Insidious hairs

In itself, it can be disgusting to think of someone’s hair in their mouth. However, in addition to it, the problem is also that these hairs trivially tickle the tongue and throat, causing unpleasant sensations.

In the past couple of decades, the fashion for removing unwanted hair has become popular not only among women, but also among men. This is, first of all, a matter of hygiene. Also, hair removal in the genital area makes oral sex easier. Just ask the guy to shave before the blowjob.

3) Strong pressure on tongue and throat

With excruciating discomfort and pressure on the back of your tongue, you may feel sick in normal positions. To avoid pressure, try a Waterfall style oral sex position where your partner lies down with her head hanging over the edge of the bed. At the same time, the man stands in front of his girlfriend, penetrating into the mouth as if upside down. Although this position is considered the most optimal in the case of a deep blowjob, from experience I will say that it has disadvantages. First, not every bed or sofa height is comfortable. Secondly, the neck quickly begins to ache. Thirdly (and most importantly!), It will be difficult for you to control the depth of your partner’s penetrations. As soon as a man loses his composure in joy, he will try to enter you at the most ” tomatoes “: with full dedication, at breakneck speed and on a grand scale. And from this, gagging may return. Believe me, the position “lying on your back with a hanging head” is not the best option for vomiting. To prevent the man from going to the fullest and retain at least some control, place your palm on the shaft of the penis at the base, or hold it by the hips or pelvis with both hands. This way you can push your partner away in time if you feel sick, if it hurts, or if you just get tired. If you nevertheless decide on such a position, make sure that the man does not pinch your nose with the scrotum, because you will not be able to breathe with your mouth with a member in the larynx, and an excited male may mistake your mooing for a breath of air for groans of pleasure.  



 

4) Inappropriate diet

Feeling sick can be caused by foods and drinks that should not be consumed before sex. Too hearty dinner, fatty foods, soda, coffee – all this can lead to nausea, especially in people suffering from gastrointestinal (gastrointestinal) problems. I also do not advise drinking alcohol for courage. Strong drinks irritate the mucous membrane, from which the blowjob will become even more unpleasant and even painful. In addition to the above, it is worth quitting smoking immediately before oral sex. 

 

2. Severe pain

Besides nausea, blowjob pain is another problem. It is difficult to caress a man if you are in pain, right? And there is no point in suffering, because we are not sex slaves. An intimate life should be pleasant for us too, and not just for guys. However, do not rush to say goodbye to sexual experiments for fear of discomfort. First, find out why pain may occur. There are factors here. 

1) Uncomfortable position

As with nausea, an uncomfortable posture can cause pain. I recommend starting with blowjob sex positions in which you set the pace. For example, the illustrious 69 position in the variation where the partner is on top of the man would be an excellent choice . This way you can control the depth of penetration without letting the man take over. In the jack position, it will be much easier for you to lower your mouth to the penis deeper.  

2) Lack of arousal

I repeat: if you do not want a man’s penis, then do not give him a blowjob. But before you completely say goodbye to the thought of deep throat, first try to relax and get aroused. Skillful lovers caress their girlfriends so teasingly that even the most intractable young ladies eagerly and passionately reach for the penis. At the same time, a man will be able to do cunnilingus , pleasing his partner with the help of fingering sex techniques or using sex toys. And again, the wonderful position “69” will come to the rescue, in which you can enjoy the caresses of your beloved (they will help you relax while swallowing the penis). In addition, you can arrange viewing of exciting porn.  

3) dry mouth

Saliva is not always the best lubricant for a blowjob, and even more so with its deep variations. In addition, with prolonged caresses, the mouth dries up, from which both partners can be painful. Although sometimes there may be the opposite effect: the deeper you swallow the penis, the more actively saliva will be secreted. You can swallow it or let it drain – it all depends on the personal preferences of both partners.

Do not skimp on pleasure, but just find the best option for you professional oral lubrication. Thanks to it, the penis will slide easily without rubbing your mouth, throat or lips. The lubricant should be applied both to the penis and to the entire surface of the lips. By the way, oral lubrication is much more effective at helping to get rid of dry lips than all hygiene balms combined.

4) Large penis

If the penis of your beloved man is too long or too thick for you, then it is quite natural that discomfort will arise. With a large diameter of the penis, a good lubricant will again be in place . But with a long one, everything is much more complicated. The best option in this case is to buy special oral freezes. It is thanks to them that the porn actresses so cheerfully show the highest class in the deep throat technique.

Fortunately for ordinary people, freeze sprays can be bought at almost any sex shop. These adult products usually contain benzocaine , a mildly numbing substance that relieves pain. Sprays often have flavors: berries, chocolate, vanilla, and so on.
Judging by customer reviews, sweet tastes are often too sugary for many, even unpleasant. But the options with a mint flavor or salted caramel are loved by many. For me personally, mint is not an option, as it terribly resembles toothpaste. But the salted caramel is super, how good it is! However, there is no dispute about tastes. 😉
 

5) colds

Everything is banal and simple: if you have a cold and you have a sore throat, then there can be no question of any blowjob. Otherwise, you will experience discomfort and cough on your partner’s penis. It’s not at all sexy, right? So first put your health in order, and then please your loved one with incredible caresses.

Have you read this place? Well done, you are serious. Scrolling through the page – there is still a lot of useful information on how to do a deep throat blowjob . 

3. Tired of a long blowjob

“I’m puffing, trying, my jaw is already clenching, but he still won’t finish!” Common situation? In this case, you should not immediately label yourself as a bad lover. Some guys just need a couple of seconds of stimulation, others can boast of many hours of erection (which does not subside even after ejaculation), and still others experience an orgasm almost from the thought of a blowjob.

Too long blowjob will torment not only you, but also the man, even the most gentle touches to the head of his penis will become painful for him, because you rubbed it. Why is it difficult for a man to experience an orgasm even when he is at the peak of arousal?
 

1) Loss of pace

The main root of evil lies in the fact that the partner pauses long during the blowjob or changes the speed of the frictions – from fast to slow. Let’s make an analogue to make it clearer what exactly men are experiencing. Imagine that you are pleasantly stimulated by the clitoris: you fatigue, the frictions accelerate, you are about to reach orgasm, but then … the man slows down or simply removes his hand or tongue. Your desire subsides, breathing and pulse stabilize, blood begins to flow from the genitals. He starts to caress you again, you are again on the verge of orgasm, and he suddenly declares that he is tired and again stops stimulating you. Can you end up like this? Of course not! The same goes for blowjob stimulation.
Feeling the growing desire of a man, in no case reduce the frequency of movements. If you find it difficult to keep pace and need to pause, continue to stimulate the penis as you like – even with your hand or with a toy. You can squeeze the penis between the breasts and interrupt the blowjob for a while for intramammary sex, but only then to return to the blowjob again after a pause. You need to understand that during the first experience with a deep throat, it will be physically difficult for you to quickly move along the penis all the time. Practice little by little ahead of time. In the meantime, as you gain experience, feel free to stimulate the guy in other ways. Remember, the frenulum and crown are the most sensitive areas of the penis . The bridle is a convex groove below the penis, leading from the head to the trunk. In uncircumcised men, it can hide under the foreskin even during an erection. If pulling the foreskin and exposing the head does not cause unpleasant sensations for the man, pull the skin down from the frenum and caress it with your tongue or a well-moistened finger. The structure of the male penis The second sensitive area – the crown – looks like a convex circle. Like a crown, it clasps the head. It is easy to feel it even through the foreskin. But the techniques of stimulation of the penis shaft itself, which are popular among many women, as a rule, rarely bring any man to orgasm, since the penis shaft is not so sensitive. With a throat blowjob, the bridle and crown, penetrating deep into the mouth and larynx, experience unusual stimulation, which is why this process is pleasant for many guys. 



 





 

2) Lack of visual support

Often guys complain that their girlfriends dive under the covers during a blowjob, as if they want to hide from a man’s eyes. Well, they shouldn’t do that! If a man loves with his eyes, then you can turn on his favorite porn or sit in front of the mirror so that he can contemplate the beauty of your body and see the blowjob process from different angles. Of course, do not forget about erotic lingerie or outfits for role-playing games. Take sexual positions, igniting the fire of passion in the man. Many are turned on by the sight of a swaying female ass (this is where a mirror comes in handy). When talking about visual stimulation, it’s worth noting that many guys like it when a girl looks into their eyes during a blowjob. Quite frankly, playing staring games with a member thrust right up to the tonsils is not an easy task. But from time to time, still cast languid glances at the man.  

 

3) Lack of audio

If you puff sadly, salivate Serb (drink tea from a saucer) and do not make exciting sounds, then the man will understand that you do not like this process very much. He wants to hear that you are good from what is happening. So moan. Breaking away from the penis with small pauses, passionately whisper groovy phrases that your partner likes.

4) There is no feeling that the woman is horny

Nothing turns you on more than realizing that your partner is exhausted with desire. Well, if a lady lies on a log with a stone face and does not even moan, then a man’s orgasm can be expected for quite a long time. How to be? Masturbate while pleasing your partner.

If a woman, giving a blowjob, begins to play with herself – this is a clear sign that she is experiencing strong sexual arousal. And that will flatter a lot of guys. So do not dwell solely on his pleasure: caress yourself with your hands or with the help of sex toys.

5) Lack of physical stimulation for a guy

Don’t get hung up on just one penis. Stroke the man’s body with your hands, play with his testicles or massage your anus with your finger. Of course, you shouldn’t go into his ass if he is against such caresses. If a man likes anal fingering , be sure to apply a special lubricant . An additional pleasure can be brought by using a butt plug. The options do not end there. There are many more sex toys with which you can caress a man, bringing him to a powerful orgasm.
If you intend to bring a man to orgasm exclusively with oral sex, then you should study the most effective throat blowjob techniques in advance . It is better to show them once than to tell the nuances a hundred times.  
 

6) The condom reduced sensitivity

As you know, through oral sex you can get infected with STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). Many do not use condoms during a blow job, relying on their own risk. You should not take risks with unverified partners, it is better to wear a condom, but you must choose the appropriate one. Conventional condoms for vaginal sex will not work here, choose special thin options for oral sex.
However, it is necessary to stipulate an important fact: there are men who are uncomfortable even in thin condoms. They may even cause erection problems. In addition, making a blowjob with a condom is somewhat more difficult than without it. When a member with a condom on rests against the same place for a long time, it can irritate the mucous membrane. The conclusion suggests itself – to give up the condom during oral sex. However, this can be done only with the cumulative observance of all the following rules : – permanent partner; – partners do not have unprotected sex with other people; – both partners were tested for STDs and received negative results. The last point is especially important. Don’t rely on men’s “honest pioneer, I’m not contagious” or on your belief that your former partners are non-contagious . Behave like adults and get tested . 





 

 
 

4. Choking up with semen

Everything seemed to work out: the practice helped, there was no pain and nausea, the guy enthusiastically and violently experienced an orgasm from a throat blowjob, but … There is another test ahead. In addition to threats to suffocate and choke on the penis, there is also the risk of choking on sperm. No, you will not drown to death, you will only unerotically begin to cough, spit and blow bubbles through your nose. Not so hot what a sight … The reasons may be different.
 

1) Inconvenient posture

In a position when a woman is lying on her back, it is especially common to choke on sperm. If you want to avoid this problem, give a blowjob while sitting, standing, or lying on your stomach.
 

2) Not knowing the signs of ejaculation

During a regular blowjob, it is worth paying close attention to your partner in order to learn to recognize any signs of an imminent volcanic eruption. Usually, when orgasm approaches, a man’s breathing quickens, moans become deeper and longer, and the pelvis involuntarily moves towards the partner’s body. The guy can squeeze your palms tightly, throw his head back, blush. But best of all, ejaculation is felt on the penis itself, which for a while becomes even harder than before, and then begins to vibrate slightly.

Did you feel this twitching? Then get ready! Take a deep breath, hold your breath, and do not swallow until he has completely finished. When the semen is completely out, start swallowing it a little.

If you don’t want to swallow, let the man cum completely, and then spit the sperm in the bathroom. Just don’t rush there like a bullet. He may be offended by such a desire to quickly spit out his seed.

There are other options besides swallowing and spitting. Talk to your man, tell him honestly if you don’t feel like (or just find it difficult) to swallow sperm and discuss ejaculation on different parts of the body. For example, in the “ face ” technique , a man can cum on his partner’s face. By the way, a lot of guys like it. There is also a poetic “pearl necklace” , when, before ejaculation, a man removes a member from his girlfriend’s body and directs its head to the area of ​​her neck, décolleté and chest. The droplets of semen really are like strands of pearl beads – hence the name of the process.