Gone are the days when sexual arousal was achieved primarily through sexual fantasies. That is – on a mental level. However, at the very dawn of photography, the first attempts were already made to put “technical supports” to the process of excitation. But the images on the glass plates were fragile, with very low quality.
Only a transition to a paper-based photo printing was made a step forward. Decks of playing cards with naked girls appeared a little earlier than the 1st World War. There were also black-and-white photo cards and booklets with pictures of staged piquant scenes in tolerance houses. The breakthrough occurred with the transition to color. This is what allowed the porn industry to recruit a large number of consumers who easily parted with money for the sake of dubious pleasure. But the full triumph of porn business began with the development of the Internet. What did this lead to?
A paradoxical situation has developed: more and more males are no longer interested in the opposite sex for an intimate purpose! This is not an allegation at all. It relies on anonymous polls among women in a number of countries. Many women wrote that they feel flawed because men do not look at them. Are the women themselves to blame? Poor “serve” yourself? Maybe. Guilty of men who are tired of the era of emancipation? Probably. But let’s look at the situation from the other side.
What does a man do at home if he is left alone and has a computer connected to the Internet? I once conducted a small oral questionnaire among my friends, acquaintances, and colleagues. The answers stunned me. Almost everyone said they were watching porn sites. To my question: “Why?” The answer followed, which stunned me even more: “To feel like a real man.” Cool, isn’t it? Adam’s descendant “strawberries” is seen, and then at the peak of sexual arousal in bed he feels like a sex giant from the Guinness Book of Records! But does it feel ? In other words, are porn sites really exciting to such an extent that you can repeat the “exploits” of video heroes? We will turn to doctors for an answer.
Given the high “readability” of materials on intimate topics, several times I interviewed doctors of the corresponding specialization. The picture is pretty sad. Many of their male patients as early as 30−35 years old are faced with the problem of insufficient erection. Talking with such patients, doctors have long discovered the reason for this. It is simple: a strong dependence on porn sites has a devastating effect on the patient, similar to drugs. Yes, in the first minutes of viewing a porn site is exciting. But this period is very short.
Further, as in the case of drugs, arousal can persist only when viewing something new, more strongly affecting emotions. In other words, a new “loading dose” is needed. And since in the porn industry the quality of videos is at the level of animal instincts, quick braking with an erection begins each time earlier due to the fact that the vision is “blurred” by similar scenes of base sex. At first, a premature decline in erection is almost not felt by a man. “Just think, an erection subsided a minute or two earlier than before!” Random crash! With whom it doesn’t happen … I’ll watch the second or third video, and everything will be fine with the penis. ” But is this a random glitch?
Many sexologists persistently say that viewing porn sites has a harmful effect on the male body. Disagreement begins with the psyche. What do the videos most often show? As a rule, the “outstanding” sexual abilities of men. But only someone who understands Photoshop and video tricks can understand the deception. The rest shown is taken at face value.
Naturally, the question arises: “Why can’t I do this?” And “self-digging” begins with an assessment of my intimate capabilities. And then experiments go on, which, of course, are very far from the “exploits” of porn heroes. Involuntarily, a complex of one’s own insolvency begins to form in the consciousness in bed with a woman. And if the partner by hint confirms your doubts – then problems with an erection will definitely begin.
They will only grow if a man remains addicted to porn sites and does not cease to “try on” what he saw in the videos. Then without the help of a doctor it will be difficult to get out of the impasse. Isn’t it better not to get involved in a porno drug that kills a man in you?