Do you think that you have already tried everything in sex, but intimate life is still not as bright and exciting as before? Then try to bring into it such a “peppercorn” as fisting ! This type of sexual intercourse involves the most intense caresses of the intimate organs, what do you think? Yes, by hand! Why not? Moreover, it is not only interesting and pleasant, but in some cases even helps to establish an intimate life or even maintain a relationship. For example, in some couples there is a mismatch in the size of the penis and vagina. And this means that the woman remains dissatisfied. Or, after childbirth, the vagina does not return to its original size, and in order for a woman to have an orgasm, stimulation is needed with something larger than the once perfect penis.
Anyway, many people find themselves in fisting . As, for example, in BDSM or role-playing games. Moreover, the stereotype that supposedly after that, ordinary sex does not bring pleasure – no more than a myth or a tale. By no means, fisting can become exactly that “highlight” that you missed so much in your intimate life. Therefore, be sure to offer it to your chosen one.
A fist that does not beat, but “loves”
Literally – translated from English – the word ” fisting ” means the commission of any action with a fist. In our case, we are talking about the stimulation of the vagina or anus with the hand (in some cases, feet “foot- fisting ”). In any case, we are talking about the fact that an unfolded or clenched hand is immersed in the intimate hole to the depth that will be most pleasant and comfortable for the receiving partner. Naturally, this activity is very extreme , but at the same time, this does not mean that this is impossible. Everything is possible, and everyone who practices it has had the first time. The main thing here is to follow the basic rules and principles, following which, you will be able to give your partner maximum, incomparable pleasure, which you could only dream of. In addition (according to the fisting gurus ), it gives great pleasure to the man. Moreover, the representatives of the stronger sex, as a rule, are visuals , and during fisting (in contrast to the usual sex) they have the opportunity to contemplate the sexual intimate parts of a woman. In any case, at least it’s definitely worth a try. And in order for everything to go like clockwork for you, we will give some simple, but important and effective tips. · Do not exaggerate your strengths and do not naively hope that everything will work out the first time. · Put your hands in perfect order. Nails should be trimmed and the skin should be free of blisters or chafes . If anything, use latex gloves. · Take care of the correct preparation for this lesson. To do this, you can use an anal plug, which adapts the muscles of the anus to penetration, or an inflatable sleeve, which helps to comfortably get used to large sizes and do it gradually. · Special lubricants are required for fisting . They are usually silicone or fat based. Some of them are even edible, as they are essentially margarine. · If anal fisting is expected, be sure to take care of hygiene. To do this, make an enema, or even better, buy a special anal shower in a sex shop. · It will help in this case is a good prelude or a relaxing erotic massage, especially one that uses oil with aphrodisiacs. Some people use poppers , volatile substances that relax the muscles when inhaled. Including intimate organs, which greatly facilitates penetration. However, you should be aware that they are contraindicated in people with arterial or ocular pressure. They are also intended for inhalation only and may cause burns if in contact with skin. Be careful! · The best poses for fisting – is on his back with slightly raised hips (you can put a pillow under the buttock) or different kinds of postures Doggie -stayl. · Start typing with one finger. When you feel that the vagina or anus is used to its presence, gently insert the second, etc. · After all five fingers have penetrated, the most crucial moment comes. Add more lubrication, ask your partner to relax as much as possible, and gently and slowly push the hand inward. At the same time, listen to the feelings of the woman. · This is where the most interesting and enjoyable begins. Gently rotate your hand inside the vagina, massage its walls, squeeze and unclench your fingers. Then, for the most intense stimulation, you can clench your palm into a fist, thereby making fisting a real fisting . · After the onset of orgasm, do not rush to remove your hand. As a rule, with such stimulation, the second, third, etc. soon follow. · When you have enjoyed and will need to withdraw your hand, remember that this moment is just as important as the introduction. Be extremely careful and attentive. · After that, thank each other for the pleasure you have given and share your impressions and realizations so that the next time will be even brighter and more exciting.
Basic fisting safety rules
As mentioned above, although fisting is a mega enjoyable activity, but still with a share of extreme. Therefore, be sure to remember and use a few basic, but very important rules.
· Don’t force events. It didn’t work the first time, it will definitely work the second or third. · Be extremely careful and careful. Movements should be leisurely and sensual. The active partner should not get carried away, but observe how the passive feels. These can be moans of pleasure or screaming from the appearance of pain, a vagina relaxed or compressed from unpleasant sensations, a desire to move away or even remove the fisting’s hand , etc. · Do not use regular lubricants (even if they are intended for anal sex) due to poor absorption . This is not enough here, go to the sex shop, there you will find everything you need. · Chat with the pros. This can be done on thematic forums or through special literature. · In order to comply with the rules of hygiene and healthy microflora of intimate organs, alternate penetration of the hand into the vagina and anus should be avoided. But if you still prefer this option, do not forget to wash your hands or change latex gloves. Also, if you are doing this with an unverified partner, avoid touching your genitals with your hand, since in this case, as in normal sex, there is a risk of transmitting STDs. · Discuss each of your fisting more often , and remember the impressions and wishes of your partner. Listen to him. · Remember that fisting – it’s an occupation that should not be abused, exercise the utmost caution. Health comes first. Moreover, in this case, it is the guarantee of the pleasure that sex life brings. We hope that we managed to convince you, or at least sow the grain of desire to make fisting a part of our intimate life. Or at least just try it, thereby bringing a very significant and interesting amount of variety to your sex. Well, our tips and tricks for bright sex will help you pamper a woman with a completely new type of caresses, show how experienced you are , and how much you care about her pleasure. We wish you exceptionally bright, interesting, and amazing emotions, and that your next sexual experiment will end in triumph!