Immediately make a reservation that the word lover is not meant to be a “destroyer of families”, but a woman who knows how and wants to be the most-most in bed for her man, and possibly her husband. So she can be anyone!
In my opinion, every wife simply must be a good lover, then there will be no betrayal or divorce. Summing up the numerous reviews of amateurs, experts and just ladies’ sisters, we tried to get to the solution to this great mystery.
So, the perfect lover is the one who …
Loves himself
A favorite subject of men’s dreams is a gentle, beautiful, temperamental woman who under no circumstances will interfere in his life and encroach on his freedom. And also to search for him, to collect information about his favorite ways of spending leisure time, to demand dates, gifts and make calls without a reason. Moreover, it should be sensual, loving, affectionate … The list of angelic virtues can be continued indefinitely.
Can a woman be SUCH in our country, where there are fewer men of childbearing age (and the competition is appropriate)? Oddly enough, yes. But only in one case. If she loves herself more than a man. If she goes on a date for her own pleasure, and not so that “everything was like people have.” And he has sex for himself, and not in order to keep a man. He lives with her husband because he loves him, and not because of money and not because of a child. And after a love act he listens more to himself and his feelings, and does not pout his lips about the fact that he immediately ran into the shower. A woman who loves herself, the “thing in herself” is a mystery to men. And what could be more interesting than solving the mystery?
Unchained in sex
We all gradually mastered the art of flirting – each in its own way. Why, then, easily and with pleasure indulging in these games in an upright position, many begin to feel shy, pinched and numb in the process of moving to a horizontal plane? Continuing to tease your partner, fooling around and being naughty, you can get rid of the constraining natural impulses of tension and give each other a lot of pleasure.
Do not forget that sex is a natural continuation of romantic love. A seductive woman wears beautiful underwear or stockings even when no one is going to undress her. Just for yourself. All kinds of erotic accessories tone her up.
She never chirps, but speaks in a low and low voice. Even if you have the highest soprano by nature – do not worry! Speak in a low voice and your voice will sound beautiful and exciting. The main thing is not to raise it. Any, even the most pleasant voice, breaking into a cry, sounds disgusting (not least because the timbre rises several times). And learn to have fun. You will not enjoy what is happening – nothing good will come of it.
Proactive but not aggressive
Most men in sex are not that lazy, but often somehow do not dare to take the first step. This comes from teenage complexes when the boys were afraid to invite the girl to dance at the club. In turn, those who behave aggressively in bed – in childhood, obviously pulled the pigtails of the girls in order to attract their attention. Any aggression is a sign of weakness, and the best way to quench it is to take the initiative itself.
In addition, activity in bed encourages the partner to behave accordingly. If you lie like a log and wait for a man to do something with you, then it is likely that he will treat you just like a log, and not as the most charming, attractive, beloved and unique.
Challenge a man with a gentle challenge, begin to caress him first – this works especially well if he is used to your passivity. You will see the result yourself.
Not complex for nothing
A woman personifying the male ideal is not ashamed of her body, no matter how thick (thin, tall, small) it may be. This does not mean that she does not take care of herself – no, she regularly does hair removal and pedicures, hair and manicures. But there are moments that just so, for one trip to the beauty salon, can not be solved. Big nose. Small breasts. Wide hips. This is precisely the difference between a woman who is simply pleasant and a woman who is pleasant in all respects. That which is easy to change, the latter, is easy to change, and that which is difficult or impossible to change, suits her anyway.
If you love yourself for who you are, – the same will not hesitate to make the man. It is for this very reason that bbw, who, seeing themselves in the mirror, smile with pleasure and note that there should be a lot of good people, do not suffer from a lack of fans.
Another aspect – feel free to find yourself in an awkward situation. The heel broke – boldly break off the second and proudly go through life (to the nearest shoe, home or to a friend). Legs bursting in the gym? An occasion for jokes and early termination of classes for today (as well as for buying new clothes!). You ask, what is the connection with sex here? Straight. In 90% of cases, a woman unchained in life is perceived by a man as a person unchained in bed. And these associations, it should be noted, are not unfounded.
Loves to give pleasure
Some ladies, corrupted by modern glossy magazines, when they go to bed with a man, are most concerned about whether he can please them. The idea that much depends on themselves does not occur to them somehow. Men’s statements on the topic “real bliss is when you, dear, are good” cause them to distrust at best. Meanwhile, the golden rule of the altruist – to give more than receive – works in bed as well as possible.
Sexologists believe that from his own actions a person starts up “much stronger than from the actions of a partner. That is why ideal sexual contact arises only if a lady tries to give her partner no less, or even more, than she receives.
Able to compliment him
“My dear, I was not so well with anyone as with you,” – only fools take such a thing at face value. An intelligent woman tells her man the same thing, but in a more constructive way. She will certainly praise all his virtues (he will focus his attention on the details, it works fine), but she will also accidentally mention that if he paid attention to some especially pleasant moments to her, her happiness would become limitless …
Well, in general, there is no limit to perfection! So become the perfect lover for your beloved man! Make him happy in bed and he will not look for connections on the side!