It is not customary to talk about a woman’s dissatisfaction in a relationship. It is as if indecent. Yes, and how to talk about what and confess something embarrassing? But the problem exists. The weak half of humanity is often silent about it. To tell her husband “I want you” is a feat! Alas, it may not be appreciated during difficult periods.
Well, there are times when a man is tired, he plunges headlong into work and “forgot” about sex and about you. Although he is a representative of a strong part of humanity, he is still an ordinary person. And an ordinary person is not always preoccupied with sex, as is customary (or want) to consider.
Somewhere I heard the saying: a real woman is not one that can seduce many men, but one that is always attractive to her own husband. Agree, it is difficult to be a seductive mystery for a person who has long been “saw through” and seen more than once not only in an unattractive form, but also in various poses. But probably.
What to do and what to watch out for a woman when the soul yearns for romance, and the body craves sex?
In a cooled relationship, it is inappropriate to declare directly to the object about their sensual desires. In the best case, the request will be followed by an unromantic performance of “conjugal duties”. Phew! I do not want responsibilities. It is not interesting. Not fun and not intriguing. I want passion, thirst, unpredictability!
All kinds of candles and transparent peignoirs, of course, are good. At the beginning of a relationship, when romance is already enough. And if the family has existed for more than 3-4-5 years (determine your term) – you will not surprise anyone with beautiful linen during the quiet period. Therefore, the expected effect of transparency may not give. All sorts of erotic advice from women’s magazines, from my point of view, mainly describe hackneyed, uninteresting ways to influence. Intrigue is not enough, the result is unpredictable. Sometimes – no offense. The most effective start to attracting is leaving yourself. No, not a “resentful unsatisfied lady slammed the door …” No anger or pretension. Full acceptance of the situation. With good and secret. Just in the life of a precious spouse suddenly appeared Riddle. Mrrr … She already started her game. Hold on, men!
So, I went into myself. What does it mean? I love my husband and wait for him. But I do not demand anything. I just completely took up my ordinary life. I’m cooking it, I say good night, and … that’s it. I’m not climbing myself! I don’t even touch. The initiative of communication on the female side is completely ruled out. All these “well, talk to me” or “you know what happened to me today” should disappear.
It is important for a husband to notice the absence of a wife! And to get bored, you need to be without you.
During the period of “departure” it will not hurt to put yourself in order. But not for his sake! And for your own sake. Enjoy, admire yourself. After all, I am beautiful or not! Everything that pleases and gives pleasure in a given period of time – yes! All disorders – no! Great to do erotic dancing. They fuel energy, sexuality. For example, I really like belly dancing and strip dance. I look at myself – and I see the embodiment of sensuality! Ahhh … how nice to feel. It’s not necessary for a husband to dance right away. But to practice smooth movements, body flexibility is shown from the beginning of successful exercises.
By the way, you can always be beautiful. Radiate joy. Let him always see a ray of light in your face.
When a man notices the absence of his wife, returns from his tiredness, he must discover the embodiment of Perfection and Beauty! And it’s nice to be surprised, at least …
During a seduction period, it is important for the spouse to do household chores as usual. Children are fed, lunch smells delicious, the apartment is cozy and nice. As if nothing had changed.
The husband should not suspect something was amiss. “Ordinary” adds intrigue.
Well, if you can find a hobby, which will turn out to leave “with the head.” The stronger your preoccupation with your life, your immersion in new interests, the greater the effect.
A man needs to at least sometimes understand that he is not alone in your life so important. This fuels his hunting instinct.
During the period of subtle attraction of the husband, patience is necessary. Here and now, sex will not work. May it be sweet languor. A delicious sweetie should ripen. And if you crave passionate sex, you must wait for that very magical moment.
A man, like any ordinary person, needs time to switch from one sphere in life to another. Give him the opportunity to calmly recover.
The last stage of attraction begins when a man emerged from his work and fatigue and began to look closely at what was happening around.
And here I radiate the scent of sex. And the finer the effect, the deeper the effect. As if nothing is happening. I just cast a magical look, catch it and immediately turn away, as if shy, as if by accident. He didn’t understand anything either. It seemed? Maybe … But he will look for this light trail of desire. So, the hunter has already woken up! And he needs to be given the opportunity to hunt!
Demonstrate your perfection where there is, well, no room for sex. Here it is, the final intrigue! No touch needed. In the look is a dream. In movements – smoothness. In a voice, in a deep sensual, velvet voice – all of you. A smile is alluring, sweet. And the woman is so tasty and inaccessible! Let the hunter dream, languish, achieve.
Then, of course, he will get you. You will not resist much …
And all that I spoke of at the beginning of this narrative, and even more, will be accomplished. “I want you,” he grunts gently into your ear. A transparent peignoirs probably will not be needed. Undress before you have time to pull them on yourself.
And I love those moments, it’s wonderful!
But I immediately warn you: to achieve this is not easy.
You have to overcome yourself, educate. Switch your attention from natural physical desire to other areas in life. Get rid of inner unsatisfied anger. To relax. Do not blame anyone for anything …
In general, accept the situation of a loved one as he is, and with all my soul strive for the best.