After another internet dating, I wondered what place telephone sex takes in the life of a modern person. I’m not talking about a paid service, but about a real conversation between two friends or strangers.

My phone sex happened to a big apple guy . I was driven by research interest and nothing more. By the way, I did not finish the process. The sounds made on that end of the wire led me into some confusion and … flight. To my little shame, I hung up at the height of the fun of a young man. By the way, very pretty, judging by the photos. 

On this my personal experience, in general, ended. And the interest in writing the article aroused my failed cavalier, all through the same Internet. A nice Moscow man in his prime. The telephone conversation began to slide into the subject of what I was wearing. She said that I don’t play such games and got … hang up. Now fleeing from me.  

So how acceptable and acceptable is phone sex in our world? Does it fit into our morality? And what does he carry in himself – crazy pleasure or a touch of shame?   

To begin with, some of the respondents frankly do not understand all the charms of the process, regarding it as something neutral. “If someone likes it, let it be!” And the truth is, if someone is good and this person enjoys the sounds of the voice on the other end of the phone, then why not, actually? 

Another point that is important for me personally and for the Nth part of those who took part in my little research is how close the person is to us on the other end of the line. How important is it and maybe loved? Is it possible to get the most out of phone sex with a stranger? Will it be something magical and exciting?   

For me personally, a telephone conversation with a guy from New York was just an experience. I did not feel emotion towards someone I don’t know. He was perceived by me as a pleasant voice and a pretty photograph. Just someone out there, out there. Not native, not close, not welcome. But how much would the situation have changed if the person on the other end of the line were significant to me? So far I can only guess, but a considerable percentage of the participants in the experiment spoke in favor of telephone sex, provided that they talk with their beloved halves. 

Among the respondents who did not understand the meaning of the action were those who spoke out sharply negatively. And telephone conversations never excited them, and they did not want to try, and in general, they blush with might and main when talking about something like that. The question of how honest this answer is is also tormenting me. But in this case, it remains only to play a guessing game. On the other hand, real sex is really better than virtual. However, there were those who did not have phone sex, but they did not mind trying to do it and discover new horizons.

Interestingly, some of the respondents, positively related to the issue, consider sex on Skype or correspondence more trendy. The first option allows you to see what is happening with your partner, the second develops imagination and style. What Well, here each his own. 

And yet, what does this telephone conversation carry – a particle of warmth, a note of desire, a smile, a riddle? Or something more? And maybe less? After all, he really helps someone, excites, calms, pleases, satisfies. At the same time, it may not be enough for other people or it is not needed at all. Consider whether the phone sex permissible norm of morality or not to believe everyone, of course, decide for himself. But one thing is certain: when your loved one is far away, then “pourquoi pas”? (Why not? * French.)     

Appears if greater freedom during phone sex? Of course. Here we are not clamped and more open, nothing shackles us, there are no unnecessary factors and thoughts. Is it worth bringing this emancipation to life? Sure. It is so nice to give and have fun. The main thing is to have a close person nearby.   

Another undoubtedly excellent argument in favor of telephone sex is the complete safety of the process. Here the human imagination works and there are no any threats to health. Virtual sex has the ability to relieve sexual tension and enriches sexual life.

In the process of research, I came across a very unpleasant discovery. Many are shy, not wanting to talk about sex, considering it personal and forbidden. This is indisputably their right, but how terrible it is in essence, when complexes and fears prevent us from being liberated. And it’s not so much about talking about sex, but about life in general. There are so many obstacles around everyone, erected by himself and the surrounding reality, public opinion and family … It’s time to think about whether it is time to demolish them. But we will talk about this next time.