Safe sex on the Internet. Where to find a suitable partner?

Nowadays, the Internet has become an integral part of the life of almost every person. It is so tightly interconnected with our daily life that it is very difficult to imagine its absence. The Internet is what makes our life more convenient and easier, more mobile. And the fact that we transferred many aspects of our reality to the virtual space in order to save time, and simply because it is easy and convenient, turned out to be quite predictable. One of these points is meeting on the Web. 

Acquaintance on the Internet is easier than, directly, in real society. The Internet is a zone of almost absolute freedom and expression of one’s desires that one has to restrain in real life due to various conditions, whether it is observance of etiquette or even violation of applicable law. In the Internet space, it is easier for a person to get rid of complexes and to be free. 

For dating on the Internet, there are many social networks, both of general importance (classmates, VKontakte, my world), and specialized, which set as their main goal to find their soul mate (mamba, loveplanet). One of the main reasons for dating the opposite sex is to satisfy sexual needs. A prolonged lack of sex often leads to the collapse of personal life. Negative attitude towards others, irritability are just a few of the symptoms that a lonely unsatisfied person suffers from.  

Naturally, when you meet on the Web, you are not immune from a flurry of offers to immediately engage in intimacy, but, in turn, the Internet protects you from direct physical harassment. This is definitely a positive point.

So, where to start the search for a potential partner in the interactive space. First of all, you need to decide and realize why you need a partner: for a serious relationship or directly for sex for a while.  

Sex without commitment: the simpler the goal, the easier and faster it is to achieve. Those who are less fortunate in real relationships or who cannot start them due to lack of time, just throw a cry: “I want sex!”, Attach a spicy “photo”, and … you can count down the seconds before the appearance of potential partners. Of course, the quality and contingent will be diverse, nothing can be done. We select applicants and choose the lucky one. Well, what did you expect? Everybody wants! Perhaps this relationship will grow into something more serious. For me personally, this type of relationship is unacceptable and not enjoyable.  

Serious relationship: for a serious relationship that includes sex, you must first find the subject of lust for your feelings and desires. Engage in a communication aimed at a deeper acquaintance, so that the partner begins to trust you and lets you into your personal space, devoting your time and revealing your feelings to you. 

It must be remembered that the sooner you transfer your virtual feelings to the real world, the faster you will find out if there are chances to realize these relationships physically. For seriousness is binding. 

To successfully achieve the goal with a good acquaintance, your joint relationship must go through these basic steps:
1) Virtual communication. Using correspondence on social networks. 2) Voice contact by phone or skype. 3) Physical communication and contact. 

 

You must not forget about the dangers awaiting you when meeting on the Web. On any resource, you may encounter the following participants:

Pickupers. Persons who are looking for acquaintances solely for the purpose of seducing and replenishing their collection of victories in the sexual field. 

Network trolls. They are amused by the game on your feelings. They will try to bring you into an emotional conflict, receiving special psychological pleasure from this. 

Fraudsters. This contingent of users makes acquaintances aimed at receiving money and other material benefits from you, through deception. Remember! Your money is just your money. People accusing you of stinginess cannot be justified by any good feelings and intentions.  

Maniacs. The danger that the subject you like on the Web may turn out to be a maniac should not be the reason for refusing this type of relationship. Precautions and thoughtful actions will save you from trouble and help to avoid dangerous situations. 

Regular chats \ forums. For them, online dating and communication has become a habit with which they move away from everyday boring reality and everyday life. Their goal most often is to conquer the next girl / guy, rather than the desire to have sex. 

Returning to reality, I note that the Internet is certainly funny, but every year we feel less and less reality, and, harming our physical body, we are drawn into a stream of zeros and ones. As one of the classics, wishing to remain anonymous, put it: “ Have sex gentlemen, and do not have brains for yourself and others! »© Have sex, love each other, do not be shy of your feelings, let sex take not the last place in your life. And so that your sex is safe – do not forget to use condoms. Have a good search !   

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