For some, threesome sex is cheating or flagrant debauchery. And this is not to mention the fact that often the number of participants in such fun can be much greater. So three is still a light version.
In any case, this is a personal matter for everyone, and if there is a desire and opportunity, then why not? Moreover, to each his own and in an intimate life you can find much more, to put it mildly, original and exotic ways to satisfy your sexual needs. This article will help to look at this phenomenon from a different angle, and it may even make someone think about making threesome sex one of their erotic experiments.
What, how and why?
First of all, it is worth noting the fact that threesome sex (or triolism ) is not always the initiative of men, since everyone indiscriminately accustomed to reproaching them for polygamy , and sometimes even “affectionately” calling them males. In fact, their percentage is not so much higher than those cases when a girl wants such a variety. On average, this ratio is somewhere in the region of 65/35%. And then, you can make an amendment to the fact that women are sometimes embarrassed to admit it.
So, let’s take a closer look at why there is a desire to invite a third person to your bed, and look at this phenomenon from different angles.
Terms
This is not BDSM with all its variety of accessories, terms, and designations. Everything is much simpler here, and all you need to remember is a couple of basic abbreviations. 1. FFM . It will not be difficult for an inquiring mind to guess that these are the first letters of the words “woman” and “man”. Well, their number speaks about the number of participants of one sex or another. This kind of relationship is the most common practice. 2. MMZH . Here, respectively, one girl is gratified by 2 partners at once. It is practiced less often than FFM, but in the topic of sexwife , this option is incredibly popular and without it such a relationship cannot be imagined a priori. 3. And, of course, one cannot but say about LJJ and MMM , what happens in bi- or homosexual partners.
Who does it
In fact, there are many more people than you might think at first glance. According to surveys, about 70% of people under the age of 35 have done this at least once. Are you surprised? Why not? Imagine how many people fantasized about it! Therefore, let’s leave demagoguery aside and find out who and why lets threesome sex into their lives.
1. Those who have an irrepressible craving for experiments
There are most of them and they will not feel at ease if they do not put a tick in the “record book” that they had threesome sex. Most often, in this case, such an experience can be single or repeated a couple more times throughout life. After all, we must go further in search of sexual adventures and discoveries. Although sometimes it can become an essential part of intimate life.
2. Married couples or couples in a relationship
It would seem why? After all, this can be called the simultaneous betrayal of both partners. Why do they need it?
It is necessary! For example, a couple has been together for a long time and wants variety and spicy sex. An excellent excuse, if it suits everyone and then there will be no reproaches. Moreover, some do not have a sense of ownership of their partner, although they love him very much. And secondly, this is much better and more correct than looking for adventure on the side. But here, everything is fair and 1: 1 in favor of everyone.
3. People with an irrepressible sexual temperament
Imagine that a person has such sexual activity that it is always not enough for him, he wants more sex, and one partner is not able to satisfy him. Perhaps even because of understandable fatigue. Then threesome sex is a way out, and sometimes even the first step to going forward and smoothly increasing the number of partners.
4. By chance
This happens very often and is usually tipsy. This can be an acquaintance at an incendiary party in a club, where threesome sex becomes a kind of after-party , or at a get-together with a narrow circle of friends. This option is not ideal. The main thing is not to forget about contraceptives and try to make sure that the next day no one and no one will have reproaches. All in one boat.
5. Bisexual people
It is not uncommon for a couple (in which one or both partners are bisexual) looking for the same, so as not to deny themselves anything and live a full-fledged sex life. As a rule, both parties approach the choice of partners with special attention and responsibility. And such a relationship can usually last for a long time.
Basic Rules
By and large, there are no rules. There are some points that (as elsewhere) need to be considered. Especially in sexual relationships, which should bring joy and pleasure, and you need to make sure that everything is exactly the same. Therefore, let’s focus on the main points-recommendations that should be followed if you decide to try threesome sex. 1. When inviting a third person to bed, you need to understand that you have a fairly strong and trusting relationship. 2. Don’t insist or do favors. Everything should be voluntary. 3. Carefully choose your partner, use condoms. Better yet, get all tested together for STDs, some of which can be transmitted through oral sex. 4. Try to make sure that threesome sex is not a consequence of alcohol intoxication. More precisely, of course, you can relax a little before the meeting, but getting to know your partner and the decision to hold such a meeting should be made sober. 5. If you would like to experience what a threesome is, do not hesitate to tell your soul mate about it. And, of course, do not insist or force things. Just touch on this topic as often as possible, and perhaps even in a humorous manner or by chance.
Good or bad?
What is good and what is bad is nothing more than the lyrical title of a children’s poem. And in life everything is relative. And whether something is good or not, no one can say for sure . The same goes for threesomes. If this helps to make the intimate life of each of the participants brighter, richer, and more fulfilling, then that’s great! Well, if after such a sexual experiment relations may become tense, or – even worse – health issues arise, then what can we talk about? In any case, to say “yes” or “no” to it, and even more so whether to practice, is your own business. We just tried to make this direction in sex more understandable and dispel some stereotypes and myths.