Consummation. This scary-looking word came from the English word “consume” – to consume. Yes, the stripper’s task is not only dancing, but also the consumption of various products for which visitors to bars pay. Most often these are expensive alcoholic drinks: cognac, champagne, cocktails. In some bars, consummation extends to food: for example, ordering ice cream or a salad, you will receive in cash 20-30% of its value.

There are prudent strippers who care about their health, plan to someday have children, so they do not want to get drunk every night. A laudable desire, especially since almost all girls without such a desire end their careers very quickly and very badly. 

I can please the prudent: in many clubs there is a non-alcoholic consumation, that is, under the guise of a cocktail, they will bring you a glass of ordinary juice (pathetically decorated with cream, pieces of fruit and other “jewelry”). However, that you do not drink alcohol, you need to inform the management, all the waitresses and all the bartenders in advance! If in some club there is no non-alcoholic consummation, then this club is not worth it for self-respecting girls to work in it.   

How it’s done

Usually a guest (in worthy strip clubs, visitors are called “guests” rather than “customers”) he himself invokes the girl he likes. For example, when she comes to him for a tip after her dance, he asks: “Will you come to me later?” This phrase means that he invites you to his table. However, the stripper can come up to the guest without an invitation (for that he is a strip bar). Yes, the stripper just comes up, sits down next to him and starts a pleasant conversation with the guest. 

Do not brazenly demand a treat! Wait, after a few minutes, the guest himself will ask: “What will you drink?” If he doesn’t stubbornly ask this, there can be three explanations: 1. This is the first time in a strip club and does not know the rules. 2. He did not like you. 3. He is a radish. 


 

In all these cases, you can do the same thing: smiling radiantly, explain to the guest that, according to the rules of the club, you have no right to sit with him for more than 15 minutes without ordering anything. After that, rise and apologize, leave (if this was point 1, they will stop you and offer to order something!).

Be sure to inform the guest of how much your order is worth! In decent clubs, waitresses, having accepted an order from a stripper, are obliged to contact the guest with whom she is sitting with the following question: “The girl made an order for such and such an amount, do you agree?” In clubs, this obligation is simpler on the shoulders of the stripper. 

Remember, if a guest, stunned by the bill, refuses to pay for your cocktails, you will pay for them from your own pocket! In addition, cheating is not good – the guest will be offended that he was stripped as sticky and will not come to you anymore. The best stripper is not the one who manages to deftly deceive the poor fellow who accidentally wandered into the club. The best stripper is the one to whom every night there is a line of people who want to treat her with expensive cocktails.   

What if the guest decided to try your non-alcoholic cocktail? Nothing terrible will happen: all regular visitors to strip bars know what consummation is. And the fact that they have to pay big money for glasses with regular fruit juice in a strip bar does not upset them: they know what they are going to (especially if you immediately honestly tell you how much your order is worth). Visitors to strip bars understand that in this case they do not pay for cocktails, they pay for communication . For communication with a beautiful and well-mannered girl (which is worth a lot). 

What to talk about with a guest

Here we call psychology to help: Dale Carnegie’s How to Make Friends and Influence People. This is a really serious book on how to manipulate people. If a stripper wants to achieve great success with men, she should re-read this book at least twice, and even better, make her her handbook and re-read at her leisure.

In a sense, a stripper is a psychotherapist who has to listen to the revelations of tipsy men all night long (hard and harmful work). It is to talented psychotherapists that men go night after night as bewitched (and the cost of cocktails does not scare them). 

Upper class!

Contrary to popular belief, success and vulgarity in striptease are incompatible concepts. The most successful stripper is usually the club’s most educated girl. On her own initiative, she actually acts as hostess. Having seen her guest in the doorway (that is, the one who came to her), she hurries to meet him with a friendly smile and the words: “Good evening! Very glad to see you again! ”    

When her guest is going to settle the bill, she doesn’t run away bashfully into the dressing room, but with dignity sits with him until the end of this delicate procedure (it is possible that she receives additional tips), after which she sees off the guest to the wardrobe with the same friendly smile : “It was very nice to talk with you! Come again!” 

By the way, you have to smile a lot. All evening and all night. It’s very wide – from ear to ear, otherwise the guest torments you with questions: “Why are you so sad?” But how could it be otherwise: he came to such a fun place, he is relaxing, having fun! This means that he needs a company, too, that is, fun! At first, cheekbones will reduce stress, and then nothing, get used to it.    

And the last …

Those who secretly dream of finding their prince in the strip bar and marrying him. The princes really go to strip bars: smart, educated, purposeful, well-off (the poor just don’t have the money). But if you plan to create a full-fledged family with your prince, the Dale Carnegie book for this case is too small. No, you wake a passionate passion in a man – no problem! And even with all the folly of the folly of the occasion: armfuls of roses, expensive gifts and vows of love to the grave. But the fact is that men’s passion, no matter how ardent it may be, lasts no more than 3-4 months … After this period, the man will look at you with different eyes.      

And what is the forecast of psychologists in this case? Disappointing: “If the relationship in a marriage is asymmetric, and it is precisely such relationships that a woman dreams of in the secret of her heart, then betrayal by a man is inevitable. A man does not cheat on his wife only if the relationship in the marriage is truly partnership. And when he contains a woman, when he is smarter, stronger, and so on according to the list, it is only natural that he does not consider it necessary to report to his wife and refuse for his own sake . At least at some point he may well cease to consider it necessary ”(Andrei Kurpatov). 

Family relationships are long-term (long-term) relationships, their construction requires, of course, a more serious approach than the one described in the book by Dale Carnegie … For girls with serious intentions I recommend: Andrei Kurpatov “Men and Women” (“Beauty and the Beast”) “Family happiness” ( “marriage horns office and hoof”), “Mystery of Adam and Eve” and “How to survive a divorce” (about the most common errors book, t. e. about how not to build a marriage).