In order for beauties to pay
attention to you, you first need to appreciate yourself. Obviously, everyone
likes people who invest in themselves: they take care of their appearance (this
applies to both clothing and body), improve their education, find interesting
entertainment and develop themselves comprehensively. If this is inherent in
you, you understand that you are not mediocre and useful in this world, then
you are already playing in the league of guys who girls can like, and they will
be ready to fight for you.
But, there is a question “How to like girls?” and the other side.
This side is purely psychological. The fact is that we are all, without
exception, fighting for influence. We want to influence this world: on the
employer, on our employees, on our clients, on our parents – to be significant
for them, on our friends, etc.
And the girl also wants to influence. And if its influence affects you easily,
then you automatically become uninteresting as a spent feature in the game.
That is, if you try to please, try to please, adapt to her, then at first it
will seem attractive to her, but she will get bored very quickly and become
uninteresting. This will happen because she will understand that she can do
whatever she wants with you.
There is one truth in psychology: we like those who are not yet available. And
absolutely all people obey this law, including the girl you want to like.
Therefore, at the end of this article, I would like to give you a paradoxical
but effective advice:
“To please girls, do not try to do it on purpose. Be yourself. Engage in your
own development and appreciate yourself, then you will be attractive to ladies
simply because you are interesting.