Of course , our time has chosen – sex. Sex is always and everywhere. We think, talk and write about sex. We argue about sex not only on television and radio shows, but also at rallies, processions. The Internet is clogged with imaginable and unthinkable sexual experiences. And the shops are also clogged. Or glossy magazines glorifying amazing sex, or tools for amazing sex.
Sex has become our worldview, business and religion. Both “pink” and “blue”, the old man ignited by Viagra, and the schoolchild who received the first experiences of sex at pajama discos inform about their sexual experiences with the same fervor . And there’s even nothing to say that the highest praise for the very, very star of Hollywood will no longer be talent, but sexuality!
These are the standards and tastes of our “golden time of sex”. But!
If you carefully flip through the same glossy magazines, you will notice that more and more often on their pages – like an involuntary sigh about something unforgettable – something else flickers. And what is interesting? It’s not the girls, the heroines of the sixties, who frantically believed that kissing without love is a crime. And Hollywood divas, lionesses and lions of sexuality, whose revelations irritate people’s hearts. Having survived their first meetings, experiences, weddings, divorces, family squabbles, alcoholism and psychiatric hospitals, some of them suddenly indulged in strange memories of “magical moments” that are “only once in a lifetime”: first meeting, first sight, first word of love.
For example, he recalls with enthusiasm his first meeting with Paul Newman, Joan Woodward. They met at a casting bureau. For Joan it was a disgusting day: wound up, stale, annoyed. And when the agent introduced her to “a sleek, elegant, impudent, charming young man,” the “youth” seemed to her a hero from a bad operetta. But he, inviting Joan to dinner, turned out to be such an excellent and “warm” guy that her heart melted and warmed for many years.
What tales did not tell rumor about the womanizer Bruce Willis and Demi Moore. But, having lived a stormy life with Bruce, having given birth to three children and parting with him, Demi Moore herself recalls Bruce’s first phone call and how her heart beat when she heard his embarrassed, excited voice.
Actress Jamie Lee Curtis tells how, when she first saw the “wacky” smile of Chris Gouest, her future husband in the photo in the magazine, she suddenly felt that her heart “literally froze.”
Many Hollywood stars have already told the world about their frozen heart. Among them are Kim Basinger and Nicole Kidman, Isabella Rossellini and Dennis Quaid, the proud representative of the Kennedy family, Maria Shriver, who, in her youth, the first – contrary to all moral standards and rules – went to Arnold Schwarzenegger to invite him to a family weekend.
Furthermore! Science became interested in the components of female happiness. German psychologists V. Hoffmann and G. Senger, having interviewed a thousand women (from 16 to 65 years old) and studied their answers, made a startling discovery.
We will also look at their questionnaire:
Sex on the first night? “This is already in the past (80% from 16 to 40 years): the rejection of quick pleasure creates the basis for a deep relationship.”
Aimless flirt? “And why not! A smile, a “conversation of the eyes”, a silent admiration is a delightful erotic pleasure. Especially unforgettable when it does not lead to bed ”(85% of respondents).
Infidelity? “This is pointless. It will necessarily lead to a breakdown. ” So considered 74% of young respondents (20-30 years), appreciating in the relationship between a man and a woman primarily sincerity and intimacy, rather than easy adventures.
Kiss? 70% of women give a kiss of immense importance to a kiss, if it is filled with feeling, and not an ordinary prelude to sex.
And finally, the general conclusion of psychologists : 90% of women reject “supertechnical” sex, dreaming of full-blooded love – a harmonious combination of carnal and spiritual. At the same time, 70% are ready to refuse sex altogether if there is no feeling behind it. And almost all respondents put tenderness and a strong, deep relationship in the first place in the relationship between men and women. As it turned out, this is what women value most.
We conclude. The moral of the picture we presented is that we are strange, strange people. Because, dreaming of heaven – we live according to the laws of the earth, earnestly forming the “golden time of sex a”. Dragging us lower and lower, everything in the pit and in the pit.